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From Guest Blogger Emily Smith.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
Through Caroline Myss\u2019s pioneering work several years ago, I discovered her innovative concept of having sacred contracts, which is how I now view many my relationships. She describes them as \u201csoul documents\u201d in her widely popular book, SACRED CONTRACTS: Awakening to Your Divine<\/em> Potential <\/em>(2001). \u00a0\u201cWe co-create our Contract with divine guidance, and it includes many individual agreements — or subcontracts \u2013 to meet and work with certain people, in certain places, at certain times\u2026the earthly commitments, the tasks you have been assigned, and the lessons you agreed to learn in this incarnation in order to fulfill your divine potential.\u201d (p.p. 16 -17) By looking at your relationships as Spiritual Contracts, you can go beyond your immediate emotional reactions and ask \u201cWhat is the spiritual purpose of this relationship? What is my role in this Contract?\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t In this blog, I\u2019ll share insights about these spiritually infused, contractual agreements and share practical applications for enhancing all your significant relationships, strategies for navigating these relationships, and ideas of how to discover your \u201clife assignments\u201d with key people in your life. \u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t Utilizing this key relational alchemic tool will increase your capacity for building more agility, resiliency and transformative change in exchanges in your noteworthy contracts. I have been angry, frustrated, hurt, clueless or excited about certain people until I understood their unique purpose and the gifts my contract with them brought me.\u00a0 I now know I have had spiritual contracts with many individuals throughout my life \u2013 some I realized at the time, and some in retrospect. It was through being aware of having such contracts that I could then appreciate our times and experiences together. The need to feel and express frustration or anger no longer had any purpose or energetic attachment, opening doors to forgive and be grateful.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t For example, a long-time friend of mine used to get angry with me for what I felt were minor misunderstandings on a frequent basis.\u00a0 My \u201cpeople pleasing\u201d approach at the time was to assume I was \u201cguilty\u201d of something so I didn\u2019t challenge her negative barbs. But I wasn\u2019t happy with this interaction. One day I was inspired to address it, to examine the dynamics of the unconscious \u201ccontract\u201d between us. \u00a0I asked her why she always picked on me. She was surprised enough that she told me the truth.\u00a0 She felt she was not free to be angry with anyone else in her life and felt it was safe enough to take out her frustrations with others on me. \u00a0I told her that I didn\u2019t want to be treated this way. This singular exchange changed how we interact with each other. Reflecting back on this exchange, it gave me the opportunity to grow spiritually by standing my ground and thereby build up my self-esteem and self-respect.\u00a0 I now realize that a covenant of the contract with her was to help me become more aware of how I deserved to be treated by others. This covenant has been met and resolved.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t The Collective Wisdom Team shares their wisdom on how spiritual contacts work and their relevance in our lives:<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t Each spiritual contract is uniquely designed for each soul\u2019s progression and awakening process in each lifetime. Contracts between two individuals are divinely inspired and can be powerfully transformative for both individuals involved. This is true especially if both are aware of the contractual potential and are mutually willing to work together toward its intended potential. The journey to seek and know each other and all related experiences are considered to be part of a larger sacred framework \u2013 for each to answer their inner calling, which reveals their life purpose <\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t There are few true missed opportunities in these sacred contractual agreements. If necessary, one is given multiple times to experience with another person sacredly calibrated opportunities. They will discover each other again and again until their ultimate unique contracts with each other are complete.<\/em><\/p> When in a spiritual contract, there can be great joy in the journey of self-discovery, self-mastery and self-realization. Especially now, there is a great wonderment of being here at this time in this new world of shifting into higher dimensional consciousness – and it can be mutually shared. <\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t Consciously choosing to become aware of each person with whom you have a spiritual contract and exploring the mystery of what might be the true nature of your being together at specific times in each other\u2019s lives is a worthwhile, inspiring exploration. This is especially true if they are willing to join you in navigating this divinely designed discovery together.<\/em><\/p> The most sacred of all contracts is your contract with yourself and your soul, and your soul\u2019s contract with Source\/God Consciousness. This commitment needs to be viewed with the utmost respect. It manifests itself in practical ways as you answer an inner calling to sustain your spiritual path and as you affirm the commitment on your part to continue to grow and progress.<\/em><\/p> The greatest journey you will ever embark on is the journey within to discover your own divine contract with yourself – the true essence of who you are, why you are here now, what has the highest growth potential and what are the lessons to be learned. Much love is aligned to support the fulfillment of your Awakening to Essence process!<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t Caroline Myss states \u201c\u2026I have come to believe this absence of spiritual and emotional orientation has become an epidemic. Besides being a personal problem for many people, it is a global concern\u2026what good is it to the universe to have a planet filled with souls who have no idea whatsoever why they are here or what they are supposed to be doing?\u201d\u00a0 (p.p. 2-3)<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t Caroline\u2019s list includes the following additional benefits mentioned in her blog on October 2, 2019 \u201cWhat Exactly is a Sacred Contract.\u201d Her blog site is www.myss.com<\/a>.<\/p> When you are in a spiritual contract with someone, you may experience:<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t Spiritual contracts not only exist with other people but also with yourself, your Higher Self, and with universal realms of consciousness.\u00a0 My co-writing team reminded me that we have a mutual long-standing spiritual contract with a special mission – to anchor and broadcast, as widely as possible, this unique body of collective wisdom related to discovering what shifts you need to broaden your sense of who you really are to actualize your full potential as a multi-dimensional individual. In addition, with a unique purpose and divinely inherited gifts, utilizing the process of relational alchemy. They encouraged me to also share that I consciously chose to fulfill our potential for being brought together at this time \u2013 spirit and flesh serving as one unified voice. To this day, I am still learning new nuances of our contract.\u00a0<\/p> The most profound experience I had regarding spiritual contracts happened a few years ago.\u00a0 I had been studying with a local esoteric teacher and was given a homework assignment to aid me in understanding the alchemic principle of forgiveness. The process is called Ho\u2019oponopono\u2014<\/em>a Hawaiian word for an ancient practice of reconciliation and forgiveness. I was asked to list all the jobs I had ever had, all the roles I had ever played and all the significant people in my life. Once the lists were complete, I was to use the following statement, \u201cI forgive myself for______ (some examples include believing, expecting, trying to control, avoiding) and forgive myself for judging myself about that.\u201d\u00a0<\/p> It took three full days to go through each item on each list.\u00a0 At the end of the last statement of forgiveness on the third day, I heard an inner voice whisper, \u201cYou didn\u2019t understand your contracts with these people, roles and jobs!\u201d\u00a0 I sat in the silence for several minutes, awestruck not only by what I had just heard, but also how deeply I resonated with the truth of that singular statement. That moment was a pivotal relational turning point in my life. As a result of this experience any anger, frustration or misunderstandings related to these individuals melted away. They were replaced with gratitude, love and appreciation \u2013 which before I would have never guessed were conceivably possible!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t The following relational alchemic strategies and their practical applications will increase your capacity for understanding your contracts with others:<\/p> \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 When working with another requires unique transformational skills, such as being fully present as often as you can, fully engaged as an active listener, speak your inner truths from a compassionate heat-centered space and be authentic in your communications.\u00a0 Take the high road in an all such exchanges when possible.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t Working with spiritual contracts with myself, my co-writing team, my higher self, a universal consciousness (God\/Source) and many others throughout my life has been life affirming and life enhancing. I used to run away from such difficult situations with others. I now realize they offer transformational opportunities to work through and have the potential to heal core psycho-emotional wounds.\u00a0 I now clearly understand the profound nature, breadth and depth of such contractual relationships and welcome the gifts of their true purpose in my life.<\/p> Sequestering throughout most of 2020 and 2021 provided many of us with opportunities to grow closer to some, healing old relational wounds with a few, or with others to realize a spiritual contract is over. Reflection on such experiences may reveal insights and \u201cahas\u201d missed in all the confusion during that time.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t The following questions are designed to support you in creating a solid foundation to anchor your insights, to savor pearls of wisdom and to create productive strategies and purposeful actions in realizing the full potential of spiritual contracts with self and others. Capture what first emerges in your journal.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t it is my pleasure to introduce my friend, and true spiritual guide, Emily Smith.\u00a0 Emily lives in Santa Fe, New Mexico, where she channels practical spiritual messages and guidance in the form of these lovely blogs.\u00a0 Look forward to her coming book\u00a0THE GRAND MYSTICAL SHIFT: Chemistry of the Ego Evolving into Alchemy of the Soul \u2013\u00a0<\/em>every day practical spirituality for consciously living a fulfilling, purposeful and meaningful life.\u00a0\u00a0 Your comments and feedback are welcomed. Simply comment below or contact Emily at\u00a0emilymsmith@centurylink.net<\/a>. Please feel free to share this blog.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\tWhy Is It Important to be Aware of Spiritual Contracts?<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
Benefits of utilizing this unique relational alchemic tool includes:<\/h4>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
How Do You Know You Are in a Spiritual Contract with Someone?<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
Higher Realm Spiritual Contracts<\/strong><\/h3>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
How to Increase Your Understanding of Your Spiritual Contracts<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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Self-Inquiry Questions: <\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
About Emily<\/h3>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
Welcome Emily to our family.\u00a0 I hope everyone enjoys the post.
Annie<\/p>